Philippines Untold Truth - What They Don't Want You To Know About

                Philippines Untold Truth

Looks like paradise? You think it's paradise? Think again.... There are many many websites on the internet that depict the Philippines as some tropical paradise filled with welcoming people and beautiful young women that will treat you as a king submitting to your every desire. They paint for you this picture of paradise and utopia. I read every website about the Philippines before I came here and learned as much as I could before I got here, only to find out when I arrived here NONE (and I do mean NONE!!!!) of what I read on these websites was even vaguely true. Well, after spending eight years in the Philippines, I'm telling you that is total BS!!!! I'll tell you here and now the real truth about the Philippines and the reality of what you can expect when you arrive here. So, hold on... beyond the next stop sign, you're about to enter the Philippine Zone.

Now, this is not to say that there's nothing good in the Philippines. There are some beautiful locations. There are some good people, but rare and few and far between. For the most part however, speaking from my own experiences here, the country is corrupt, poverty stricken, no reliable infra-structure, the women are users - players - cheaters - liars - thieves - scammers - pretenders - I can go on but you get the idea. Even most of the Expats are worse then the Filipinos. The locals are pretenders, hypocrites, liars, scammers, users, etc., etc., etc. The country routinely violates your rights and abuses authority. There is absolutely no moral or ethical fiber. They do not trust each other or anyone for that matter. There are armed security guards in every store, mall, building, everywhere - which visualizes the hazards here and distrust. A constant reminder of your lack of safety.

I speak in general as a country and not individually. There are, as with anywhere, good people here. But, the majority sample is as I described. The country is not what it was a decade or so ago. The values, tradition, honor, pride, and moral fiber has dissipated over the years as the new generation comes of age and has the selfish wanting desires of their own pleasure at any cost to themselves or anyone else. They think only of themselves and will do anything to get what they desire. The families do not stay together or have the importance as they did years prior. The new generation wants to leave the family and have their own lives for themselves. Thus, they cheapen themselves to gain things they desire.

As a foreigner, the locals will look at you as their "ATM" machine. They will be nice to you and befriend you to get whatever they can out of you. They will give you this enormous attitude of entitlement. They will tell you that they love you just to get you to give to them. When they bleed you dry they will leave you instantly to find a new prey. They want your money, but they do not want you in their country. That's fact !!

Corruption runs rampant in ALL levels of government and in ALL agencies. So beware of this. The Philippine National Police (PNP), Bureau of Immigration (BI), and Customs are known as the most corrupt government agencies. They're routinely abusing their power and violating your rights. They may even be part of any "scams" done to you. "Surprise, Surprise" as Gomer Pyle would say, these are also the three government agencies that have the most contact with foreigners.

If you happen to get into trouble in the Philippines do not expect a fair trial. Your constitutional rights will be violated and you'll probably be abused in some form or another. Here, you're guilty until proven guilty. Filipinos stick together whether they're right, wrong or otherwise. The Filipinos will lie and fabricate stories. They will believe the Filipino and always side with the Filipino. No one will listen to you. Know this. There is no justice for foreigners.

In your daily life routine you'll also discover that there are two different sets of rules here. One for Filipinos and one for Foreigners, two sets of rules that are very different. For example, you can be buying the exact same item and the Filipino will get a different lower price then you for that identical item. Store clerks who don't want to assist you will tell you "no stock" even if your looking directly at that item. But, they will rush over to assist the Filipino. Taxi drivers will tell you they have no change to try and keep your change. Jeepney drivers will charge you a higher fare then the Filipino pays trying to rob you of a measly few pesos. Filipinos will continually try to cut in front of you in line with their enormous sense of entitlement. I can go on and on with more examples. But, you get the picture of what your daily life routine will be like.

The basic rule to remember is that it will always be in favor of the Filipino... not ever you.

So, in closing, I reiterate "do not believe those websites wonderful stories of a tropical paradise and utopia in the Philippines." That may have been the case years ago. But, those ways and days are no longer part of the present Philippines. It's a new era and a new Philippines - sadly, not for the better.



This is not to say that all Filipinas are bad. Of course, there are exceptions. If you’re lucky enough to find one of the few good ones left, hold on to her, appreciate her and treasure her dearly. Because she will be the best thing that has ever happened to you. The posts here are to open your eyes to the enormous corruption, abuse of power, extortion, stealing, swindling and Filipina scams so you won’t become another one of the numerous statistics of foreigners that have fallen prey to them and have become a victim of the Philippines. All the posts on this blog site are TRUE stories of experiences in the Philippines. KEEP YOUR EYES OPEN AND USE YOUR HEAD (the one on your shoulders)!!!!



August 16, 2016

1. The tsinelas at all times
Tsinelas are traditional Filipino slippers, and must always be worn inside the house. If you go to another Filipino’s home, you’ll find various pairs already waiting for you at the entrance: flips flops, straw sandals, or slip-on house shoes. Now, wearing slippers isn’t really my thing. But as soon as I take off my shoes, I can see Grandma glaring at my awkward tsinelas-less feet as they walk away.

2. The hoarding
There’s something about Filipinos and keeping every napkin, take-out utensil, to-go container, and hotel soap we can find. It’s as if the apocalypse were to happen tomorrow. We always tend to take more than necessary — you just never know when you are going to need a packet of ketchup–and I always thought this was quite ridiculous until the day I unconsciously found myself doing the same. One day, I was in need of a napkin after a spilling a drink on myself, and guess who had about five buried at the bottom of her purse? This girl. Step aside, Tide To Go.

3. The balikbayan box
Turns out, we even hoard when traveling. A few months ago, while abroad, I accidentally found myself assembling a balikbyan box. I thought I could separate myself from that stereotype, but no. When a Filipino travels to another country (say, to visit the homeland before returning to Canada), they more than likely will return with a balikbayan box, like coming home with souvenirs for your family and friends — except Filipinos take it to the next level: while everyone else at the airport is waiting for a suitcase or two at the luggage pickup, Filipinos are waiting for a box filled with nothing but trinkets. I mailed mine home. No shame.

4. The karaoke lifestyle
If you so much as dare breathe the words “karaoke” to a Filipino, you will find yourself in a never ending musical trap. The average Canadian family may rarely sing a tune in front of one another just for fun. My family and extended family will turn it into a show, complete with little prizes or gifts at the end. I’m never surprised to come home and find my mother practicing her new favorite Barbra Streisand tune on the karaoke machine. It’s not a joke or silly past time, but a way of life.

5. The foreign items
Tucked away in the corner of my kitchen is a stick with a bundle of straws tied to the bottom of it. It’s our broom. This may be the only item we have in our house to clean up messes in the kitchen. It’s literally the only item we’ve ever had. We live in Canada — people are using a Swiffer WetJet like it’s nothing. My family is using a bundle of straws.

6. The “Filipino” time
For whatever reason, Filipinos always tend to run up to three hours behind. If we say to one another “See you at 4 o’clock, ‘Filipino time,’ ” we can safely assume that no one will actually be there until 6:30. If we’re lucky. I was born into this, and I am always that one friend that makes you late for everything. “Oh, dinner was at 6:00…ish?” I say as I awkwardly walk into a room full of all my friends who have already eaten. I think my Canadian friends have finally understood, and now if they want me somewhere by 7, they’ll tell me it’s at 5. And I still show up at 7:15.

7. The Tagalish
Everybody knows Spanglish. Filipino families have Tagalish. My mother will often say a few things to me in Tagalog, and being a Canadian born child, I’ll respond back in English. Family conversations, jokes, anything is usually just a mix of languages. I never really understood how weird it may be, until a friend of mine listened in with a puzzled look on her face, trying to piece it all together. Maybe the guys over in Quebec will understand.

8. The naming protocol
In Tagalog, to show respect for your elders, you must precede their name with either manong or kuya. In my life, I have only once referred to my brother as simply Peter, instead of Manong Peter. He wasn’t even there, and it was awkward. I guess some things you just can’t detach yourself from.

9. The superstitions
The majority of my Canadian friends think of demons and spirits as myths or silly stories. But to my family, they are very real. To this day, I can’t step out into a dense forest without worrying about disturbing and upsetting bad spirits. My parents taught me to always say “tabi po” when crossing paths with untouched Earth or immensely tall trees. We say this because we believe spirits — good or bad — live in these parts of the forest. If you don’t say “tabi po” to protect yourself from them, they will cause you harm. You may get sick, or fall and break a bone. To the normal Canadian folk, this is as just an accident on the trail or altitude sickness, but my familiy and I know better. Today when I go on hikes, I still tend to find myself whispering these words to small ferns and tall evergreens without even realizing it; you never know when a bad spirit is waiting around the riverbend.

10. The tight-knit community
One day, my mother called me while I was waiting in line at the Tim Horton’s Drive-Thru. I told her to hold on as I ordered from the kind, old Filipino woman at the window. Noticing my obvious visual Filipino characteristics, the woman started asking me if I was born in Canada, if I’ve ever been to the Philippines, where my parents are from. Then of course, my mother decides to chime in. “Anak, who is that?” Since my cell-phone and car speakers are connected, the lady at the window heard her too. Next thing I knew, there was a line of cars stalled behind me because of a conversation my mom was having with the worker, talking as if they were long lost best friends. Even at Tim Horton’s, when all I want is a coffee, I can’t escape from the Filipino culture.


Trump / Duterte

Trump / Duterte

August 6, 2016

Trump names Philippines as terrorist nation, implies Filipinos are 'animals'


This is the first thing Trump has said that I agree with!!!!


The Philippines Response To Trump's Comment:

 August 9, 2016

House reso seeks to ban Trump from entering PHL

A resolution filed at the House of Representatives seeks to ban US Republican presidential candidate Donald Trump, Sr. from entering the Philippines for supposedly “being inimical to the national interest.”
House Resolution 143 was filed by Albay Rep. Joey Salceda following Trump’s mention of immigrants from the Philippines who may pose threats to the United States.
"We are letting people come in from terrorist nations that shouldn't be allowed because you can't vet them," Trump earlier said.
Salceda said Trump has no basis nor justification to the labeling of Filipinos coming from a terrorist state.
He said such “ugliness of utterances, largely unprompted and undeserved” are in contrast to the hospitality shown by Filipinos towards Trump when he launched a property in Makati City called Trump Tower.
“Trump has clearly generated impressions not conducive to public good and has shown disrespect or makes offensive utterances to the Filipino people,” Salceda said in the resolution.
“Be it resolved, as it is hereby resolved, that the Bureau of Immigration and Deportation permanently refused Donald J. Trump entry into the Philippines,” the resolution added.
Malacañang had earlier taken offense over Trump’s remarks, and reminded him how he once described the Philippines as a “special place.”
“Mr. Trump has even professed his love for the Philippines during the launch of his 57-storey luxury apartment in Makati," Communications Secretary Martin Andanar said. —Kathrina Charmaine Alvarez/KBK, GMA News

Bitter truth: Do we deserve to be called a 'terrorist nation' by Trump? 

August 9, 2016

Last week Donald Trump, the U.S. Republican Party's presidential candidate for the upcoming polls, was at a rally in Portland, Maine, where he reiterated his stand against taking in immigrants from what he referred to as "terrorist nations.""We are letting people come in from terrorist nations that shouldn't be allowed because you can't vet them. You have no idea who they are. This could be the great Trojan horse of all time," he said. “Terrorists, including members of the Islamic State extremist group, will sneak into the U.S. as refugees.”Reports noted that Trump then went on to list several countries that he felt the U.S. should be wary of: Afghanistan, Iraq, Morocco, Pakistan, the Philippines, Somalia, Syria, Uzbekistan, and Yemen.These countries, he said, had immigrants who were arrested for conducting or threatening to carry out violent attacks, teaching bomb-making to recruits, and otherwise supporting terror groups.An Agence France-Presse (AFP) report observed that the countries enumerated by Trump were "mostly Muslim-majority nations." The Philippines, of course, is not counted as a Muslim-majority country, as it is identified as predominantly Catholic. Also, most Filipinos who migrate to the US are not Muslims but Catholics.Trump may have gone overboard in calling the Philippines (which, by the way, has allowed a Trump Tower to be built) a "terrorist nation" but his accusation isn’t entirely baseless.In April this year, local terrorist group Abu Sayyaf — who are supposedly fighting for autonomy in Mindanao but whose members have been known more for kidnapping for ransom — beheaded Canadian national John Ridsdel.Ridsdel, along with fellow Canadian Robert Hall, Norwegian Kjartan Sekkingstad, and Filipina Marithes Flor, were kidnapped from the Holiday Oceanview Samal Resort on Samal Island on Sep 21, 2015, by the extremist group.They initially demanded a ransom of PHP1 billion (or around US$21,306,060) for each hostage. The amount was brought down to PHP300 million (or around US$6.4 million). The ransom was never paid.Two months after Ridsdel's beheading, they also executed Hall.Since the Abu Sayyaf Group was formed in the 1990s, the Philippine government has not stopped its efforrts against them, but, so far, it has failed to wipe out its members.ASG has been described as a splinter group of the Moro Islamic Liberation Front (MILF), a rebel faction that wants greater Muslim autonomy in Mindanao, the island located in the southern part of the Philippine archipelago.The Washington Post recalled: "ASG kidnapped 20 people from a resort in 2001, including three Americans, one of whom was beheaded. In 2004, Abu Sayyaf carried out the worst terrorist attack in the history of the Philippines, targeting a ferry in Manila Bay, leaving 116 people dead. The following year, its militants carried out bombings across the country."Although the Abu Sayyaf has been considered as "largely subdued" at the moment, it's reported ties with al-Qaeda and, subsequently, the Islamic State of Iraq and Greater Syria (ISIS) is definitely cause for alarm.An April 2016 TIME feature noted that "Abu Sayyaf leader Isnilon Hapilon — now styled Sheik Mujahid Abu Abdullah al-Filipini — has been appointed ISIS’s leader in the Philippines."Rohan Gunaratna, an international terrorism expert at S. Rajaratnam School of Security Studies in Singapore, told TIME that "it’s very likely that [Abu Sayyaf] will declare a satellite of the caliphate in the coming year. Once that is done, it will be much more difficult to dismantle these groups."By "groups," Gunaratna is referring to other extremist outfits who have hosted training sessions with foreign terrorist operatives.It may be recalled that in January 2015, Zulkifli bin Hir — a Malaysian described as a key facilitator between Indonesian and Filipino extremist groups — was cornered and killed in Mamasapano in central Mindanao.The government paid a heavy price for that encounter. Forty-four members of the Philippine National Police's Special Action Force were killed. The event stalled President Benigno Aquino III’s administration's peace negotiations with the Moro separatists.Decades before Mamasapano, the Philippines was also used as a launching pad for the Bojinka Plot, which was funded by none other than Osama bin Laden and Jemaah Islamiyah leader Riduan Isamuddin (also known as Hambali).It turns out that Mohammed Jamal Khalifa, bin Laden’s brother-in-law, had moved to the Philippines sometime in the late 1980s to set up numerous financial fronts to benefit al-Qaeda.The Bojinka plot was a three-pronged attack by Islamists Ramzi Yousef and Khalid Sheikh Mohammed for Jan 1995.They planned to assassinate Pope John Paul II who was in the Philippines for the World Youth Day celebrations, blow up 11 airliners in flight from Asia to the United States to shut down air travel around the world, and crash a plane into the headquarters of the U.S. Central Intelligence Agency (CIA) in Fairfax County, Virginia.The Bojinka Plot was disrupted after a chemical fire started at the apartment where the Yousef and his group were staying.Cops later descended on Room 603 of Doña Josefa Apartment along Quirino Avenue in Malate, Manila. While Yousef and his other companions fled from the scene, a man named Abdul Hakim Murad was caught and later interrogated.Yousef and Mohammed were unable to stage any of the three attacks.The only fatality resulted from a test bomb planted by Yousef on Philippine Airlines Flight 434 which killed one person and injured 10 others in Dec 1994.They had also planted other test bombs in various locations. These tests didn't have any casualties.While Yousef was later arrested in Pakistan, Mohammed went on to become the principal architect of the 9/11 attacks.With that said, we ask: Is the Philippines a terrorist nation?For now, there is no clear answer. What we know is that there is a definite terrorist threat in the country that seems to be gaining strength. For people like Trump, that's enough to get a country branded as a terrorist nation.


Filipinos are so thin skinned. They can criticize and insult others, but God forbid somebody should tell the truth about them.... Pathetic Filipinos... 


 August 6, 2016

Duterte calls US ambassador 'bakla' over campaign comments

 It looks like President Rodrigo remains at odds with United States Ambassador Philip Goldberg despite having met a few times after the elections.

In a speech delivered late Friday night at Camp Lapu-Lapu in Cebu City, Duterte called Goldberg “bakla” or “gay” for comments the envoy made during the campaign.


Duterte insults U.S. Ambassador to the Philippines... Biting the hand that feeds him, so to speak... Yet another genius move by a Filipino...


U.S. Response To Duterte's Comment:

US summons PH envoy over Duterte’s ‘bakla’ tag on Goldberg

August 9, 2016
MANILA — The US has summoned Philippine Charge d’Affaires to Washington D.C., Patrick Chuasoto, to clarify “inappropriate comments” made by Philippine President Rodrigo Duterte about US ambassador to the Philippines Philip Goldberg.
“We’ve seen those inappropriate comments made about (U.S.) Ambassador (Philip) Goldberg. He’s a multi-time ambassador, one of our most senior diplomats,” U.S. State Department spokesperson Elizabeth Trudeau told a news briefing.
Trudeau, however, declined to disclose the meeting between US officials and Philippine CDA Patrick Chuasoto.

“I’m not going to read out that detailed conversation, but it was specifically on those remarks,” said Trudeau.
Mr. Duterte last week detailed the meeting last week between he had with  US Department of State Secretary John Kerry, who visited the Philippines from July 26-27. Ambassador Goldberg was also present at the meeting.
Duterte, known for his foul mouthed manner, belittled the US $32-million fund donation announced by Kerry and has called ambassador Goldberg “bakla” or “gay ambassador” and “son of a bitch” during the recent meeting with soldiers in Davao City.
“I am pissed with him” (referring to ambassador Goldberg).  He meddled during the election, giving statements here and there. He was not supposed to do that,” Duterte told the audience of soldiers.
Goldberg has earned the ire of Mr. Duterte after he criticized the President’s joke during the campaign about the rape and murder of Australian missionary Jacqueline Hamill in 1989.
Meanwhile, the US government has raised deep concern on rising number of vigilante style killings of people linked to drugs in the country, reaching more than 400. It called on the Duterte administration to uphold rule of law in implementing war on drugs.
Elizabeth Trudeau, spokesperson of the US Department of State, said the US would continue to call on Philippine officials “to emphasize the importance of this fundamental democratic principle.”
“We strongly urge the Philippines to ensure its law enforcement efforts comply with its human rights obligations,” said Trudeau in a press briefing at the US State Department on August 8.
She said the US-Philippines partnership has beenbased on respect for rule of law. “We believe in due process. We believe in respect for universal human rights. We believe fundamentally that those aspects ensure and promote long-term security.”
Legal experts have warned Duterte that he could face charges of crimes against humanity before the International Criminal Court (ICC) in The Hague.  SFM


Duterte Response:

Duterte won't apologize for calling US ambassador 'bakla' 

August 13, 2016

President Rodrigo Duterte maintained he was not going to apologize to United States Ambassador Philip Goldberg, saying it is the envoy who needs to apologize to him first.
"Hindi nga siya nag-apologize sa akin, why would I apologize to him? Siya mismo ang nag-una," he said in an ambush interview after a speech made in Camp Teodolfo Baustista in Jolo, Sulu.
In a speech last week, Duterte called Goldberg "bakla" over the envoy's comments during the campaign period. That resulted in the US Depart of State summoning the Philippines envoy in Washington to explain Duterte's comments.
The rift between Duterte and Goldberg started after the former Davao City mayor made a controversial remark over the rape of an Australian missionary in 1989.
Australian Ambassador Amanda Gorely reacted saying rape and murder should never be trivialized.
Goldberg, in a television interview, supported Gorely's position.
Duterte said he was hurt by Goldberg's statement during the campaign.
"Talagang nasaktan ako kasi election time eh. Ngayon, medyo okay na ako. Sino ba ang hindi magalit, election time tapos magbitaw ka ng salita na ganoon?" he said.
Washington summoned Filipino charge d'affaires Patrick Chuasato to explain Duterte's remarks, which the US called  "inappropriate and unacceptable."
Presidential spokesperson Ernesto Abella on Thursday that explanations have already been made to the State Department, while defending the comments as not meant for the public. Duterte himself expressed confidence that US-Philippine ties remain strong. —JST, GMA News

Dating / Marrying Filipinas - Real Experiences


Rusty Kolp says:
July 7, 2012 at 10:03 pm
I would like to leave just a comment regarding online dating mostly the phillipine dating sites but this pewrtains to many more also.
For three years I have been seeking to bring girl here to USA for marriage in this time I have met so many fake girls using fake pictures different names and so on ,yes so many not have computers but to use the cyber cafes they must make the most of there time , this means logging onto as many sites as possible all at the same time,chatting to as many guys as possible all at the same time and lieing to as many guys as possible all at the same time,granted not all do this but 75% are taking your money under false pretense I have never heard so many excuses and so many problems that anyone person can have.
I think when a another guy contacted me and told me truth abut this certain pinay he said it best (They learn from a very young age what to say and how to say it in order to get money out of your pocket ) and I agree it seems the spread what things to say because so many use the very same problem excuses over and over , the dating sites are full of girls using others pics and using god name to make you believe what they say. I still hope I find a real pinay to marry but now I m much wiser after loosing $14,000.00 dollars in three years of searching

mike says:
May 12, 2014 at 12:10 pm
Yes… it is lots of fake people online and off…. This is how the world is. But learn how to be more professional in spotting them.
1. If every picture is always too perfect, this is you first sign but still talk to them.
2. Quickly say, I want to see you. And ask them how can I see you? If they ask you to send money for a cam, you are almost there. Then try to send them a cheep cam….. no money but try to send cam.
3. Ask for some all things in their pics. Peace sign, feet, anything that is not a normal thing.
And I though if these on my own so I know you can thing of some things.

Andy says:
April 6, 2016 at 10:53 am
Just to make you feel better. I courted a filipina, visited her 5 times, then she tells me she needs to get away from her family. I just found out she came to USA already! Getting ready to marry another American.!!! Wtf!

Tyrone Davis says:
October 9, 2014 at 1:58 am
Well I met this young pinay through a relative already living in the USA she introduced us I looked her up on Facebook we got to know each other I flew to her country and married her and boy that was a big mistake when she CE to the USA she changed completely found out it was a scam and now she is living with someone else I took care of her and her family for four years o flew there three times and this is what o got in return some pinays are honest some are not you just got to be careful because some will use you just to get out of the country.
I got scam and it was marriage fraud but one day I will findy true Asian queen.

David says:
October 31, 2014 at 6:33 pm
Just stay away from thais and filipinas. It´s all about money. Try Vietnamese or Korean, where you find the most honest and beautiful women!

jonalyn fulgueras says:
November 3, 2015 at 10:00 pm
hi im a filipina but i agree with you manu of the girls who joining a dating website just want to get out of their country but i think when someone already trusted you and love you its enough to love him back and give what he deserve many filipina is a user just try not to get fooled.

winter says:
December 26, 2015 at 11:43 am
Not all.. Some Filipina are nice and not after of the money. Of course you have to consider someone with breeding and the kind of person she is. If you are dating someone who is a bitch on the street then I will not argue on that. Most of them are likely like that. But if it is professional and well educated, I don’t think they are like that.

April says:
December 28, 2014 at 2:28 am
Mine is very different. Ive been to college in the philippines, lived in europe for a while (my husband stalked me on facebook for a while ,wooed me then married me. He is in the military and stationed in europe). I followed him there, reached 2 years mark of being married, went back to the states for another duty station and christmas time comes this 2014.. He tricked me into sending me back to philippines for a supposed visit to my family christmas and just message me recently he wont buy me a return ticket to the u.s . Im a permanent residence. I felt so stupid. I was emotionally depressed because he never help me adjust to foreign life when i was there. I was in depressed mode and he used it against me after i return here why he wants me to stay here for a while when in fact if he did not emotionally buffed me hen i was there i would be okay.
I never join any dating site, im educated in my country. I even work inside the base in germany to help off set the cost. It breaks my heart to pathom that the harsh reality is, people looked down to us filipinas because of the reasons stated above but there are other stories like mine. My husband was my first foreign friend ,boyfriend and i married him. I never looked for one but he showed up in my doorstep, swept me off my feet and threw me like im just a thing. I guess mine is a different story.

April 16, 2016
Well as some of you guys may remember I had a thread on hear awhile go about my now ex handing a baby over to her to keep as the mother could not afford for her food. I never could get the real answer what ever happened to it or if really even existed but I did not hear much of it after a few weeks. Anyways I was with her since June 2011 and I really grew tired of her games and alot of people telling me that she was so lucky to have me mainly by Filipino guys who assumed my condo or even 2 taxi drivers I never asked why they said it but I just shrugged it off,
I really gave the relationship my best but it was fruitless and a waste of time to continue, I also had a message in my facebook from another guy saying that he had met with her a few times but had never done anything and that he wanted to marry with her. When i confronted her about it at first she denied it then he gave me more specifics and I was able to tell it was a genuine message and I confronted her with it again and she told me that they were just friends. This girl is from a broken but nice family and was also working in a mall when I first met her long hours, I really did my best to support her by sending her an allowance every month, flagship smart phone's and nice designer brand watches etc she also stayed with her sister and sister in-law and her niece in one of the condos, Her brother already found a new girl but they still wanted to help her and the baby. Her brother is working in another city. She also had a nice trip in Australia and we spent a few weeks on the Gold Coast so why she wanted to play games is beyond me.
Anyway enough is enough I could not tolerate it as I had for around 4.5 years so I just told her it's over I can't live like this anymore. She already transferred to some rough boarding house as she did not want to return to her mothers and sister room.
So I tried using Date In Asia but really not much luck there. Too many liars and players. Many fakes.

Source is available upon request.


Nabbed Over Affair With Minor



Nabbed Over Affair With Minor

Thursday, March 10, 2016
By Oscar C. Pineda

CEBU. Japanese national Yoshio Morino was presented to the media on Thursday, March 10, 2016, following his arrest for having an affair with a minor. (Sun.Star Photo/Amper Campaña)

THE National Bureau of Investigation (NBI) arrested the other day (March 9) a Japanese national for allegedly “sleeping” with a minor inside a motel room here in the city.

Yoshio Morino, 69, from Setagaya Ward, Tokyo, told reporters that he did not know that the girl was a minor and apologized for it.

NBI agents went to Room 406 of Queensland Motel, Arcadio Maxilom St. in Barangay Careta, Cebu City, at 3:30 p.m., and found Morino with the 15-year-old girl.

Agents turned the girl over to the social worker and to her parents in Naga City where the victim lives.

Morino signed a waiver yesterday, freeing the NBI from liability for arbitrary detention as he will be detained at the NBI stockade without charges.

Prosecutor II Mario Ley Gidayawan gave the suspect’s counsel Roberto Arendain to submit a counter-affidavit before or not later than March 21.

Sun.Star Cebu is withholding the girl’s name as she is a minor.

The NBI agent handling the case, lawyer Donaver Inesin, said they are now preparing a case of rape in connection with Child Abuse Law or Republic Act 7610, and violation of Expanded Anti-Human Trafficking in Persons Act of 2012 or Republic Act (RA) 10364.


Morino, a retired chef and a widow from Setagaya Ward in Tokyo and who arrived the country one and a half month ago, said the girl stated in profile picture that she was 19 years old.

“She told me that if you buy me a new cellphone I’m gonna be your girlfriend,” Morino remembers the girl telling him when they met.

The Japanese tourist admitted having sex with the girl, believing that she is already 19 years old.

“But I never forced the girl,” said Morino.

Cebu Vice Gov. Agnes Magpale, who presented the suspect yesterday in a press conference, said Morino befriended the girl through social media and arranged a meeting in Talisay City, Mandaue City and Cebu City.

Inesin said the two first saw each other last Feb. 23 in a mall in Talisay City.

She said the suspect then brought the 15-year-old girl to a motel in Mandaue City, but nothing happened between them that time.

“Pagka-February 25, didto na siya (that was when it happened), forced against her will, consummated gyud, (and) were looking at a rape case,” said Inesin, and this reportedly happened in the suspect’s rented room at City Seascape in Mandaue City.

After their meeting the victim told her parents what happened and they sought the help of the Provincial Women’s Commission (PWC), whose co-chair is Magpale.


When the suspect met the victim again last March 9, the victim’s parents alarmed the NBI. When the suspect and victim took a cab, NBI operatives on motorcycle followed them until they checked in a motel.

Inesin gathered from the victim that the suspect created an account “Filipino cupid dot com.”

“So we could assume that her friends (victims) are also using the same website, although we cannot go further nga abuse pud sila,” said Inesin.

The victim said she went with him just for fun.

Magpale said they will visit schools and inform teachers and students on the dangers of visiting suspicious websites.

She admitted an increase in the number of abuse victims.

The PWC, co-chaired by Magpale, is composed of law enforcers from NBI and PNP; prosecutor’s office; medical and psychology professionals and Capitol officials.

Published in the Sun.Star Cebu newspaper on March 11, 2016.

Why Would Anyone Want To Visit The Philippines?

Why Would Anyone Want To Visit The Philippines?

January 31, 2016

I’m fairly well traveled. I’ve been in the Philippines many years and have experienced it.

Here’s the true take on the Philippines: 
1. Never relaxed or felt safe at all whilst moving around in Manila. Was constantly on edge and waiting for bad things to happen. Was on guard but all the time felt nervous. Going out at night unless by taxi was a big no-no. Even by taxi was a risk. 

2. Went to Clark AFB, a cyclone came in and weather was terrible for about three days.

3. Couldn't eat at McDonald’s without children or women with babes in arms banging on the restaurant windows asking for money. Have never seen as much poverty or as many slums as in Manila and children begging. It had all the sounds of a dysfunctional country.

4. The only positives were the women spoke English and understood better.

5. Was constantly hassled by beggars in the street and really believe Manila to be the worst city ever visited.

6. Food on the streets, was by and large greasy, unhealthy and inedible unless went to lousy fast food joints. 

People being mugged in broad daylight in Manila, gangs of well dressed Filipinos robbing people without shame in Jeepneys working in groups of up to 8, terrible poverty, drugs being placed in peoples drinks knocking them out and getting robbed, credit card scams in restaurants, aggressive and nasty attitudes from Manila taxis threatening and refusing to open meters, cheating and scamming as soon as you get off the plane, police and security with machine guns at shopping malls and ever increasing threats from Muslim insurgents.

My God, it makes Pattaya sound like kindergarden!!!

I have made a few friends from the Philippines on Facebook and can assure readers ALL BAR NONE are trying to get out of the Philippines and work elsewhere. Never met one, male or female, that says they love the Philippines and want to stay.  

There you have it… As Paul Harvey would say, “and that’s the real story.”

Why would anyone want to visit the Philippines???

Reader Comments:
Scruffy cities. Boring, unhealthy food. Above all, skip Manila. Worst city in SE Asia by far.
the Philippines way ahead  in the murder stakes.

Many natural disasters (storms, earthquakes, volcanoes)
Much poverty
Food is often bland
Taxation on world-wide income (only of interest to those wishing to live there).

Everything is inferior:
  - The ubiquitous grime
  - The catholic bigotry seems an insult to the intelligence
  - The filthy food where each dish is bursting with fat and sugar
  - Too low roof Jeepneys where it enters and leaves squatting
  - All types of more expensive and less good housing.
  - As stated above beggars, slums, garbage everywhere, misery, rats ...

The Philippines, the banking system there is just shit, they learned from the Americans, the road system is shit and the traffic is unbelievable, the train system does not exist and the ferries are overcrowded and dangerous. Since Marcos every government came in on the promise to do something against corruption and then they just filled up their own pockets and disappeared. So if you don't want to be disappointed make a circle around the Philippines and call it a "No go Zone"

Woman Faces Theft Complaint For ‘Robbing American Boyfriend’

Woman Faces Theft Complaint For ‘Robbing American Boyfriend’


Friday, January 15, 2016
Gerome M. Dalipe

A RETIRED American sued his former girlfriend for allegedly stealing his gold coins and making an unauthorized withdrawal from his bank account amounting to about P100,000 total in 2014.

Lewis Franklin Johnson filed a complaint before the Office of the Cebu City Prosecutor accusing Cherie Emnace Momongan of theft and violation of Republic Act 8484 (Access Devices Regulation Act of 1998).

State Prosecutor Simaco Labata found evidence to charge Momongan with theft and violation of Access Devices Regulation Act of 1998 before the Regional Trial Court.

In his affidavit, Johnson said he sought the help of the National Bureau of Investigation (NBI 7) after he discovered that his gold coins worth $1,200 were lost.

He also found out that his silver coins worth $17 were missing. The American also reported the unauthorized withdrawal from his dollar bank account amounting to $1,148.

Johnson and Momongan went to the bank and reported the unauthorized withdrawal.

The bank manager told them they could provide video footage of those who withdrew from their bank, but it would need clearance from their head office.

Momongan also confessed to Johnson that she was “kidnapped” and was brought to a warehouse.

She claimed she was blindfolded and was kept inside a dark room.

Momongan said she was “lucky” since she escaped from her captors. She later received text messages threatening her. Johnson said they decided to report the incident to the NBI 7 for fear of their lives.

But NBI 7 investigators doubted Momongan’s claim that she was kidnapped.

While she claimed to be from Barangay Lahug, Cebu City, Momongan is not familiar with Gen. Maxilom Ave.

The investigators suspected that the respondent stole the gold and silver coins and illegally withdrew money from Johnson’s ATM card.

The American received text messages from someone who posed as Momongan and let her withdraw money from his ATM card.

The NBI 7 investigators then accompanied Johnson to view the CCTV from the bank and confirmed that Momongan made several withdrawals on various dates in October 2014.

“It is clear that the kidnapping story is just a hoax and respondent (Momongan) did unauthorized withdrawals,” said Prosecutor Labata in his resolution.

Labata said Momongan took the ATM card, gold and silver coins from the deposit box.

Momongan also admitted to Johnson that she just wanted his money and wished she could get more from him.

Momongan failed to submit her counter-affidavit, which would have given her the chance to refute the charges lodged against her.

Published in the Sun.Star Cebu newspaper on January 16, 2016

Beware Of The Filipina Marriage Scam

Beware Of The Filipina Marriage Scam


Posted - January 9, 2016

Filipina marriage scams occur when a woman lures an unsuspecting Western man into her dangerous web with promises of love and devotion. The man who is usually from the United States, United Kingdom, or Australia falls in love with the person the Filipino woman is pretending to be and marries her. Once the deceptive woman gets what she wants out of the marriage she discards her husband. Sometimes the Filipina will trash the husband's reputation in the process, and if there are children involved the situation becomes even more frightening.

How Do Filipina Women Meet Western Men
A prominent way a woman living in the Philippines will meet a Western man is over the internet. She will post an attractive picture of herself online at various dating and social networking sites. She will quickly tell a man who has shown interest in her how much she loves him and how much she wants to be with him. Sometimes she will be professing love to more than one man at a time. She will appear virtuous and come off as the perfect woman and excellent wife material. Sometimes she will tell of hardships and ask for money before marriage, other times she will wait until she is in the U.S., Australia, or U.K. to begin taking money from her husband. Before continuing with this article it needs to be said that not all women in the Philippines are scammers. Unfortunately it can sometimes be difficult to tell the difference between an honest woman and a migration scammer until a marriage has taken on a darker component and eventually dissolves.

The Cleaner Scam
The cleaner scam occurs when a Filipina woman marries a man who has the intention of moving to the Philippines to live with her. Usually he will have to return to his home country for a period of time to make arrangements. His Filipina wife convinces him to add her name to all of his bank accounts. After he does this she empties the accounts and he never sees her again.

Scams to Get Into the States
Many Fililpina women will scam men so that they can move to the U.S., U.K., or Australia where life is better and money is more abundant. Often they will wait until the allotted time after which the husband cannot say the marriage is a fraud, and then divorce the man. Sometimes a woman is already married and will ask for her brother or cousin to come live with her and her husband. When this is the case, the "brother" or "cousin" is really her first husband.

The Dump Truck Scam
-Tampo Phase

The dump truck scam is form of marriage fraud that can last for a number of years. A man from the U.S., U.K. or Australia will marry a Filipina woman who has made him fall in love with her with pretty words and verbal caresses. The husband will bring his new wife back to his home country, only to discover she is not the person he thought she was. She will begin to act distant, unhappy, and snappish.

- Distracted Phase
In this phase of the scam the filipina wife will stop listening to and being attentive to her husband. She will act distracted when speaking to him, or "doodle" on paper during important conversations. She will ask for money for things she doesn't need, stop taking care of the house, or doing anything to contribute to the marriage.

- Falsely Reporting Abuse
A filipina woman may call the police and say she is being abused by her husband during this phase when she really is not. According to the Mail Order Bride blog, "...female perpetrators of immigration fraud are highly familiar with U.S. Domestic violence laws and understand a false claim of abuse not only insures free legal assistance but also invokes new federal laws prohibiting their removal from the United States" . Not only does this harm the reputation and legal status of the accused husband, it takes valuable time and resources away from women who really are being abused.

-Using Children
Sometimes a filipina woman will have children with her husband while still in the midst of a migration scam. She may do this with her husband's knowledge or she may trick him into impregnating her. Once children are born it makes it much easier for a marriage scammer to get what she wants. When children are in the home a husband is asked to leave if she cries abuse. She will often file for a restraining order, file for welfare benefits, ask for a divorce for which she will receive free legal aid, and get most if not all of the marital assets. In some cases the father will be cut completely out of the child's life and the marriage scammer will use legal means to achieve this, even though her husband is a natural born citizen.

Everyone Suffers from Marriage Scams
Marriage scams happen more often than people realize and when a marriage scam is successful a number of people suffer.

One marriage scammer was married to her American husband for years and had three children with him. She cried abuse and ended up getting sole custody of her children and all of the marital assets. The victim of the filipina migration scam was ordered to pay more in child support than he made and was not even allowed to keep enough money to pay for his life sustaining medication. This filipina's ex-husband is now living in the Philippines with his new wife. The ex-husband is a pastor whose passport was taken from him by the United States Embassy because of the actions of his ex-wife and he cannot return to the United States because of telephone threats on his life made by the police of his hometown. This victim of a migration scam cannot come back to the U.S. to see or protect his kids right now, though he is fighting to change that.

Another marriage scammer actually married her husband in the United States, though she was only there on a Visa. After the marriage her personality changed completely. After the marriage fall apart the husband found out he was not even legally married to the Filipina woman because she already had a husband in the Philippines. He then found out his "wife" had stolen money from a local V.A. Hospital and was filtering it through an account in his name. The woman was never seen again even though the U.S. government has searched for her for over a decade.

Some women will divorce their husbands as soon as they can legally stay in the United States. Others will exhort large amounts of money before doing so. Some Filipina migration scammers will get their husbands to buy them a house, car, pay for their education, and have babies with them before they toss them aside. In the end the husband is left hurting, kept away from his children, and has to rebuild life from scratch.