Dating / Marrying Filipinas - Real Experiences


I WAS READING ANOTHER WEBSITE FOR DATING FILIPINAS AND FOUND THE READER COMMENTS INTERESTING AND SUPPORTIVE OF WHAT IS BEING SAID ON THIS BLOG. SO, I THOUGHT I'D SHARE WITH YOU THEIR EXPERIENCES AND COMMENTS AS WELL.



Rusty Kolp says:
July 7, 2012 at 10:03 pm
I would like to leave just a comment regarding online dating mostly the phillipine dating sites but this pewrtains to many more also.
For three years I have been seeking to bring girl here to USA for marriage in this time I have met so many fake girls using fake pictures different names and so on ,yes so many not have computers but to use the cyber cafes they must make the most of there time , this means logging onto as many sites as possible all at the same time,chatting to as many guys as possible all at the same time and lieing to as many guys as possible all at the same time,granted not all do this but 75% are taking your money under false pretense I have never heard so many excuses and so many problems that anyone person can have.
I think when a another guy contacted me and told me truth abut this certain pinay he said it best (They learn from a very young age what to say and how to say it in order to get money out of your pocket ) and I agree it seems the spread what things to say because so many use the very same problem excuses over and over , the dating sites are full of girls using others pics and using god name to make you believe what they say. I still hope I find a real pinay to marry but now I m much wiser after loosing $14,000.00 dollars in three years of searching



mike says:
May 12, 2014 at 12:10 pm
Yes… it is lots of fake people online and off…. This is how the world is. But learn how to be more professional in spotting them.
1. If every picture is always too perfect, this is you first sign but still talk to them.
2. Quickly say, I want to see you. And ask them how can I see you? If they ask you to send money for a cam, you are almost there. Then try to send them a cheep cam….. no money but try to send cam.
3. Ask for some all things in their pics. Peace sign, feet, anything that is not a normal thing.
And I though if these on my own so I know you can thing of some things.



Andy says:
April 6, 2016 at 10:53 am
Just to make you feel better. I courted a filipina, visited her 5 times, then she tells me she needs to get away from her family. I just found out she came to USA already! Getting ready to marry another American.!!! Wtf!


Tyrone Davis says:
October 9, 2014 at 1:58 am
Well I met this young pinay through a relative already living in the USA she introduced us I looked her up on Facebook we got to know each other I flew to her country and married her and boy that was a big mistake when she CE to the USA she changed completely found out it was a scam and now she is living with someone else I took care of her and her family for four years o flew there three times and this is what o got in return some pinays are honest some are not you just got to be careful because some will use you just to get out of the country.
I got scam and it was marriage fraud but one day I will findy true Asian queen.


David says:
October 31, 2014 at 6:33 pm
Just stay away from thais and filipinas. It´s all about money. Try Vietnamese or Korean, where you find the most honest and beautiful women!


jonalyn fulgueras says:
November 3, 2015 at 10:00 pm
hi im a filipina but i agree with you manu of the girls who joining a dating website just want to get out of their country but i think when someone already trusted you and love you its enough to love him back and give what he deserve many filipina is a user just try not to get fooled.


winter says:
December 26, 2015 at 11:43 am
Not all.. Some Filipina are nice and not after of the money. Of course you have to consider someone with breeding and the kind of person she is. If you are dating someone who is a bitch on the street then I will not argue on that. Most of them are likely like that. But if it is professional and well educated, I don’t think they are like that.


April says:
December 28, 2014 at 2:28 am
Mine is very different. Ive been to college in the philippines, lived in europe for a while (my husband stalked me on facebook for a while ,wooed me then married me. He is in the military and stationed in europe). I followed him there, reached 2 years mark of being married, went back to the states for another duty station and christmas time comes this 2014.. He tricked me into sending me back to philippines for a supposed visit to my family christmas and just message me recently he wont buy me a return ticket to the u.s . Im a permanent residence. I felt so stupid. I was emotionally depressed because he never help me adjust to foreign life when i was there. I was in depressed mode and he used it against me after i return here why he wants me to stay here for a while when in fact if he did not emotionally buffed me hen i was there i would be okay.
I never join any dating site, im educated in my country. I even work inside the base in germany to help off set the cost. It breaks my heart to pathom that the harsh reality is, people looked down to us filipinas because of the reasons stated above but there are other stories like mine. My husband was my first foreign friend ,boyfriend and i married him. I never looked for one but he showed up in my doorstep, swept me off my feet and threw me like im just a thing. I guess mine is a different story.
 


Annonymous
April 16, 2016
Well as some of you guys may remember I had a thread on hear awhile go about my now ex handing a baby over to her to keep as the mother could not afford for her food. I never could get the real answer what ever happened to it or if really even existed but I did not hear much of it after a few weeks. Anyways I was with her since June 2011 and I really grew tired of her games and alot of people telling me that she was so lucky to have me mainly by Filipino guys who assumed my condo or even 2 taxi drivers I never asked why they said it but I just shrugged it off,
I really gave the relationship my best but it was fruitless and a waste of time to continue, I also had a message in my facebook from another guy saying that he had met with her a few times but had never done anything and that he wanted to marry with her. When i confronted her about it at first she denied it then he gave me more specifics and I was able to tell it was a genuine message and I confronted her with it again and she told me that they were just friends. This girl is from a broken but nice family and was also working in a mall when I first met her long hours, I really did my best to support her by sending her an allowance every month, flagship smart phone's and nice designer brand watches etc she also stayed with her sister and sister in-law and her niece in one of the condos, Her brother already found a new girl but they still wanted to help her and the baby. Her brother is working in another city. She also had a nice trip in Australia and we spent a few weeks on the Gold Coast so why she wanted to play games is beyond me.
Anyway enough is enough I could not tolerate it as I had for around 4.5 years so I just told her it's over I can't live like this anymore. She already transferred to some rough boarding house as she did not want to return to her mothers and sister room.
So I tried using Date In Asia but really not much luck there. Too many liars and players. Many fakes.




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