Do Most Filipina's Cheat?

Do Most Filipina's Cheat?

My wife was at the market today and ran into a woman she knew in college.  They chit chatted for a bit and the woman told my wife she was going to Marry a Foreigner soon.  He has been here to visit several times, but lives in his home country.  When he is away, the woman has a Pinoy bf (boyfriend), but accidently got preggy this time.  Now she's in a dither, because she doesn't want future husband to know and so she thinks she should get an abortion and so on.....

After the conversation ends my wife comes home to tell me what a strange day she had.  When the woman asked her if she had a Pinoy bf she couldn't understand why she asked and it was not the first time she's been asked that question.  Now she wonders why so many women here are cheating on their bf/husbands.  Good question, why do they?  Is it really that common?  I suspect it is, what about you?

My wife says there is clearly no love in this woman's heart.  She is in the relationship for the money. She would like to keep the baby because she "loves" her Pinoy bf, but he does not seem quite so interested and the woman fears her foreign husband would not be happy about the situation if he found out.  So explaining a baby might just ruin her cash cow.  I suspect she's right about that.  I feel bad for they guy, whomever he is.  He's being taken for a ride and does not know it.  Sad that.


Contributed true story - October 9, 2014